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LOVE AS KINSHIP: AN ECOLOGY OF RELATIONSHIPS

Introduction I often wonder whether the invention of the mirror changed how we see ourselves and separated us from the interconnected world we belong to. Before mirrors, we could only glimpse our reflection in Nature, perhaps in a river or a pool of water. The mirror zooms out others and turns our gaze inward. It focuses attention on the individual face rather than the wider family of life. The mirror therefore shows the face, but it is kinship that reveals the family. This deeper recognition of family lies at the heart of my transcultural framework. It is grounded in the conviction that existence itself is relational rather than individual. It is expressed through the Tuko Sawa concept of equality by creation and through upendo bila sababu (love without reason), a form of love that precedes transaction, condition, or reward. This upendo is the recognition of the self in the other, not as mirror-like sameness, but as fellow inhabitants of our shared home, planet Earth. An Ontological...